What’s Your Smell

Yes, I realize it’s a weird question. Hopefully you’ve had a shower or bath in the last day or two so it’s not a literal smell. Maybe you had some onions or garlic in your last meal, but I’m not talking about that smell either. I’m talking about what you leave behind once you’ve left the room.

I’ve been a Seinfeld geek for many years. There’s an episode where Jerry drops his car off with the valet and when he gets it back, there is a terrible odour in the car. It turns out, the valet attendant had some strong body odour that stayed long after he left the car. If you’ve seen the episode, you know how this odour seems to take on a life of its own and of course, the humour that follows.

As you know, I was in the hospital for a week at the end of March. We all know our hospitals don’t operate quickly. It takes time to register, process through triage, be seen by a nurse and then by a doctor. The resources and tools are probably not the most cutting edge in many cases. The mattresses have seen more patients than they were designed to. The paint is falling off the walls in some places. The bathroom showers are closed off because they aren’t worth repairing.

What I did find amazing though, was the compassion I received, one human to another. I was shuffled around from the Emergency Department and then to 4 different rooms in 6 days. I met many nurses, porters, dietary staff and several doctors. I was constantly left with this feeling that people genuinely cared about me. When there are so many people to care for, and so few staff, I so often felt that I had their complete attention. I kept hearing this quote in my head:

They may forget what you said — but they will never forget how you made them feel.

One of the things I was reminded of, is the value of genuine care for another person. One of the best ways to show that is by being fully present. You know what I mean – physically AND mentally present. When circumstances aren’t ideal (and really, when are they?), you can still love, serve and be filled with compassion for the people you’re with. I am not expert on this. I’m still working on improving (ask my family :-)). It’s your smell that matters. It’s the smell you leave behind after you leave the room. Are you leaving odours of compassion, empathy, care, integrity & honesty? Or are you leaving something different? Are you building up others, encouraging them, challenging them? Or are you pushing them down so you can feel like you’re more valuable? Take a few moments this week to do a gut and heart check to see where you can be better.

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  • Started going too the Ancaster family chiropractic about a month ago with neck and mid to lower back pain. Now I'm having less pain and stiffness through out the week.They also put together a personal plan for the problems I was going through and walk me through how they were going to solve them

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    colin p.
    4/24/2022
  • All my family (my wife, 3yr daughter and myself) have regularly treatments from Dr. Neil and his awesome team. Definitely a big improvement and highly recommend.

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    HK M.
    4/24/2022
  • After a few month treatment, my neck and shoulder feel much better and I can work in front of the computer much longer...Dr Neil is very knowledgeable and the staffs are very very friendly!

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    Amanda P.
    4/24/2022
  • I've been in Dr Neil's care for a little over a year now. I was sent to him by a referral, a family that had been going to him for years, with nothing but good things to say and much success!I had a terrible fall, which caused me unbearable coccyx pain. Needless to say, once I had a few xrays, we found many problems with my spine. Dr Neil has tackled each of my issues with care, and in priority. I can't believe the difference over the year. I am continuing my journey for better spine/back health, with full confidence and trust in Dr. Neil!

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    Krista H.
    4/17/2022
  • I don't think I ever actually understood what a chiropractor was supposed to do before coming here. I've only just starting coming here, but I'm already noticing a difference! Their initial assessment was so incredibly informative, and every visit since then has only helped me understand my body better.

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    Felicia C.
    4/17/2022
  • Honestly, this was the first chiropractor I've been to that insisted on xrays before treatment. And wow, I was glad I had them done, the proof was in the pudding, I myself could see my misalignment. Dr Neil is so absolutely friendly and patient, I walked in there in so much pain and I feel so much better. I referred my partner to the clinic as well, as they've gained my trust

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    Haley M.
    4/10/2022
  • I have been committed to my treatment plans for just over a year now and I am pleased to say that I have made tremendous progress. Dr. Neil, Deb and Sue are passionate about what they do and it is apparent in their patient care. I am eternally grateful to my friend that referred me. If you are looking for a chiropractor look no further.

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    Malisa C.
    4/10/2022
  • I started the chiropractic here with severe pain in my neck and low back area at this center. Now after 4 months of doing weekly adjustments with Dr. Neil, I can observe the great improvement in my body posture and my neck movement. and best part is that I started my routine workout that last time I urged to stop due to my neck pain. I'm so thankful to get to know Dr. Neil and his great and helpful team.i will continue having my regular adjustments so that I will feel as healthy and fit as I can be for the rest of my life!thank you Ancaster Family!

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    Nillie A.
    4/10/2022
  • Dr. Neil is caring and truly wants to help you get better. I have been completing adjustments for a few months now and have noticed considerable improvement to my posture. My back pain is starting to disappear and I know that the continued treatment will help me get back to normal. Thank you to you and your team :)

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    Vanessa M.
    4/10/2022
  • This is my first experience with chiropractic medicine and it has been very, very positive. The now bimonthly adjustments keep me very mobile and comfortable.

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    Gina R.
    4/10/2022
  • I've been attending chiropractic sessions by Dr. Niel and I should say they've been great. My posture hase been improved along with my balance. Dr.Niel has a very professional attitude and spends time with patients to find the root causeof the problemsvand resolving them in order to make a longstanding change. The other team members are also very friendly and helpful and it's been a pleasure dealing with them.

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    Matt E.
    4/10/2022
  • Dr. Neil has helped our family from his care. From having daily migraines to no headaches at all!

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    Shane D.
    4/10/2022
  • I have been going to see Dr. Neil and his wonderful staff for a couple of months now and I'm starting to see an improvement in my back and neck pain. If you are in need of chiropractic services I would highly recommend Ancaster Family Chiropractic.

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    Mike M.
    4/10/2022
  • I've been seeing Dr Neil for the past 3 months and my physical rehabilitation has been amazing. My range of motion is 10 times better, I walk more upright now, sporadic pains in various areas of my body have substantially decreased. The clinic staff are super friendly, knowledgeable and professional. I'm very grateful to have found this place 🙂. Keep rocking those super cool dress shirts Neil! Butterfly one is my fav 👌

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    Tarus F.
    4/10/2022
  • After spending January 2022 in severe back discomfort I was referred to see Dr. Neil by my niece. Not only did Dr. Neil diagnose me properly to help me relieve all my pain, he has worked with me as healing partner by helping me to safely implement other modalities such as exercise, nutrition and stress relief techniques back into my life so I am stronger and much healthier moving forward. This doctor is an excellent chiropractic practitioner, he is trustworthy, incredibly intelligent, committed to his patient care, an excellent listener, humble and kind. Ancaster Family Chiropractic provided me with everything I needed to re-establish my health including support and encouragement and I am incredibly grateful. The staff are very professional, friendly, understanding and accommodating! As a health care professional myself the above things matter deeply to me as a health care provider and as a patient. Thank-you so much Ancaster Family Chiropractic (Dr. Neil) you have genuinely helped me re-establish my health and move forward into life pain free and after all... our good health is vital to everything.

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    Judith F.
    3/31/2022
  • I have been suffering from neck pain and headache for almost 2 years. I constantly feel stiffness in the muscle from the back of my head and neck, which causes my blurry sight and tension headache. After consulting with Dr. Neil, he asked me to have a X-ray image and thoroughly examine my condition and explain to me patiently. It's has been 4 months having treatments with Dr. Neil, and I feel mentally and physically changed. I can think clear and sit down to concentrate on my school work for longer period of time without having tension headache. This is exactly what I want to achieve after seeking Chiropractic adjustment. Thank you Dr. Neil !

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    Sheng Y.
    11/30/2021
  • Hello everyone I have been a patient of Dr Niel for almost 6 months. I had a lot of difficulties with my neck and back. After a car accident about 1.5 years ago , I was unable to overcome the nerve pain in my neck and additional arthritis that exasperated the injury. My physician put me on a nerve medication that only masked the pain and didn't get at the root including a back pain that wouldn't subside.After seeing Dr Niel.in one word " miracle" The first adjustment literally made a significant change in neck movement let alone nerve pain. I have had better movement in my body which helps me relax my mind, improving my mood, sleep and over all digestion.I can't say enough about chiropractic care and the benefits are not isolated. This care improves OVERALL function from your skeletal to your sleep and mind set.I recommend Dr Niel to anyone

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    Maria D.
    11/30/2021
  • Have been a patient of Ancaster Family Chiro for two months. From the beginning it was a place of positive and progressive support by Dr.Neil and staff. Never feel rushed, always feel welcome and extremely understanding with scheduling.

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    Matthew K.
    11/23/2021
  • Ancaster Family Chiropractic has great service and they do a really good job at working with you and what you need to improve!

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    Grace C.
    11/23/2021
  • From the turn of the door handle , you feel the positive energy as you enter. Dr. Neil with Deb and Sue welcome you into a clean ,organized ,well run clinic . The focus is on your healing and helping you achieve that goal. Wonderful .

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    greg n.
    11/16/2021

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